Dating

 Now that I have been single for over a year and living on my own, and making it on my own by the way, I am getting the urge to really start dating again. I actually have been out on a few dates here and there and had a very nice time. And I would like more of that. I'm not ready to commit to another relationship any time soon.  I have had two very good relationships in my adult life and so if there's not another one in my future, I will be ok.  But I would enjoy dating.  And by dating, I mean not hooking up but actually going out on real, old-fashioned dates. You all know my love of the old-fashioned!

The dating I have done, and yes there have been second dates, were just that. Time spent doing things together and getting to know one another. Just spending time with someone doing something we both enjoy. Going out and having a good time.  It's been nice.  And a kiss at the end of the date was much more special because it wasn't going to lead to an impromptu hook up that usually ends with never seeing the person again.  Not always, but usually. 

Once I get through my current class, I will have some time to myself.  I would like to get out there and go on some dates and just enjoy myself.  I think I have earned that at this point in my life.  But is it rude to state upfront withe someone that it's just a date. I'm not looking for sex.  I don't want to offend anyone or make them feel like I'm not attracted to them.  I just don't want to start off that way.  I really want old fashioned dating experiences this time around. We'll see how that goes!  Wish me luck.

That is all.