Wednesday, November 4, 2026

Quote of the Week

 Even though the results of last night's elections give me hope for us as a country, I think it's important realize what the true goal is.  At least to me.  And this applies to all of us, no matter what your labels are. 


Remembering the high school play competition

 


When I was in high school, one of the major fall activities in my life was the annual NCTC High School Play Contest.  Our drama club participated every year that I was in high school.  We never won even though we should have one year.  Oh well.  I have been thinking about it lately because the current contest is about to finish up its second weekend of preliminaries before the final competition at the end of the month. Of course, these days it's called a festival because that's more PC.  Whatever LOL With the competition, you have 45 minutes to put on your show from the time the stage doors open, you get the set put up, do the show, take the set down and make sure everything is out of the theatre.  For us, that meant we mostly did cuttings of shows.  Rarely did we do a play that was already complete under 45 minutes.  Even the one acts that we did had to be edited down.

My freshman year we did two different versions of Midsummer Night's Dream.  One focused on the confused lovers and one focused on Bottom and the Mechanicals.  I was one of the Mechanicals.  The only thing I really remember about that was that the guy playing Oberon forgot his lines during this first entrance and froze on stage.  Later in the scene the girl playing Titania bypassed the stage slap and smacked him good.  We didn't win that year.  

I didn't participate when I was a sophomore.  One show was called Laundry and Bourbon and was about 3 southern ladies drinking and gossiping on a hot afternoon.  It was a hoot and all 3 ladies were recognized for their acting, one winning best actress.  The other was a weird show about rehearsing a play.  It actually had some adult overtones that were uncomfortable that the director tried to whitewash but I'm kind of glad I didn't make it into that one.  We didn't win that year either.

Junior year we did Mother Hicks and The Arkansas Bear.  The Arkansas Bear was a children's show, but I didn't want to be a bear, so I was not in that one LOL Mother Hicks was a show about an old woman who lived in the woods and the young outcast girl and the deaf boy who lived with her.  I was in a supporting role in that one.  That was a nerve-wracking experience.  Like I stated earlier, you have 45 minutes to get everything done.  We never did the show under time.  We did a pumped up run through in the parking lot before we went on but we were all aware of the strain we were under.  Oh, the director in those days could sit up in the booth but that was as close as they could be to participating.  Not calling the show from the booth but watching it from there.  We were cutting the show as we were performing it and our director was sweating bullets in the booth.  Once the show was over, we all waited with breathless anticipation and then screamed when we learned we had finished at 44 minutes and 50 seconds.  Whew!  We did not win that year either, but we should have.  Even the winning high school told us we should have won.  Oh well.

My senior year, I was in I Do! I Do!  Our director wanted to do a show for me and another senior, Amy Hunt, and he chose this one.  The bad thing about it was that the role was not right for Amy vocally.  It was written for a belter, an alto, and she was a very lyric soprano.  She knew it wasn't right. I knew it wasn't right even though I wanted to work with her.  Only the director could not see it and she withdrew from it.  Then we got the great Ginger Stegall to step in and her voice was perfect for it.  It was a fun experience, but we didn't win that year either.

So, during my four years in drama club, we never won the competition.  Oh well.  It's kind of like marching band.  We didn't win much there either until I was a senior.  But I wouldn't go back and change those experiences.  They were wonderful and created great memories and friends that have been in my life ever since.  Those were very good experiences in a difficult time in my teenage years.  I am so glad that I did it. 

Tuesday, November 3, 2026

Prayer of Remembrance

 This past Sunday was All Saints Sunday when we honor the people who have gone on before us.  This was my first All Saints Sunday at CUMC and it was a beautiful service.  While I did not personally know many of the members who left us over the past year, I was very moved still.  


Monday, November 2, 2026

Today's Moment of Mindfulness


Mindfulness meditation slows down our perception of time, so that short moments appear to be longer.  It doesn't give you more hours in your day but can arouse feelings of spaciousness and calm. 

 

Night and Day - Susie Arioli

 Susie Arioli is a Canadian jazz singer.  I first heard her on an NPR program.   It was one of those moments that I immediately wrote her name down so that I would remember it.  And I did.  I have several of her CDs and am always on the lookout for more of her recordings.  Enjoy!



Sunday, November 1, 2026

Recipe of the week - BBQ Country Style Pork Ribs

 This is a crock pot recipe and now that autumn is upon us, this will be a delicious and easy meal.


 

BBQ Country Style Pork Ribs in the Crock Pot

4 country style pork ribs

1 Tbsp Salt

1/2 Tbsp Pepper

1/4 tsp Cumin

1/2 Tbsp Chili Powder

3/4 Tbsp Garlic Powder

1/2 Tbsp Paprika

3/4 Tbsp Onion Powder

1 Tbsp Brown Sugar

1 cup BBQ Sauce

Combine all ingredients except for pork and bbq sauce.  Rub spice blend all over pork ribs and place in crock pot. Pour bbq sauce over the ribs.  Cook on high for 4-6 hours or on low for 8.


Enjoy!

Saturday, October 24, 2026

The broken shelves

 


There's no denying that these shelves are broken LOL  The lattice work in the back in several places have broken loose but they still work.  And I love them.  They are a wonderful place to display sets and collections and I find myself switching things out every few months or so.  They come in very handy at the holidays.  As you can see in this picture, I've Easter decorations on them.  And of course, each Christmas the shelves are used to display new and vintage Christmas items.

I got these shelves from Grandmother.  I will honestly admit, and I can't say this very often, that I do not remember where she had these shelves in her house.  They originally came from Aunt Billie's house in Wilmington.  That, I remember.  They hung in her dining room over the music cabinet.  She displayed some of her after dinner coffee cups on them.  Yes, I've done that too.  Love those cups.

Even though the shelves are broken, they are very much a part of my house.  I love how they look and I love being able to use them and display my treasures there.  Right now, part of my pig collection is displayed there.  I should take a picture of that LOL  I will probably keep them there until it's time to decorate for Christmas.  I realize that years from now, someone may toss these aside because of their condition.  Until then, I love having some family history on the wall!