Sunday, May 24, 2026

One Drawer at a Time - finding something I hadn't used in a long time

 People see me post things online all the time about treasures I find in the garage.  I will say that I have been shopping out in my garage which is basically going through boxes to see what it out there that I had forgotten I had.  It's fun for me and I think people enjoy seeing it.  But sometimes it happens during my one drawer at a time process.  I know that I have something, but I've forgotten where it is.  Is it in the house?  Is it in the garage?  I cannot remember! And then I will stumble across things in the house and am pleasantly surprised to rediscover it.

There are two slender cabinets on either side of my stove.  My new stove!  And the other day I went through the one on the left.  Already did the right one several days ago.  The one on the left tends to be a catchall for things.  Lots of pot lids in there.  This time I came across two things that I had forgotten I had.  One is a keeper and one is not. As you know, my refrigerator was dying alongside my stove but long before that, the ice maker stopped working.  One day I went to get some ice from the container and nothing.  I tried everything to get that thing to start working again but had no luck.  Well, I decided that since it was just taking up space, I would take it out until we were able to get that fixed.  Guess where it went?  Yep, that left cabinet.  And now that I don't have the refrigerator anymore, there is no need to keep the ice container.  Thanks, recycling!

And then at the back of the cabinet, I found something I bought years ago and haven't used in a while.  Mainly because I could not remember where I'd put it and did not take the time to look for it LOL It's my bun warmer.  I love this thing.  We had one when I was growing up and Mom used it all the time whenever we had hotdogs or hamburgers.  I found one online years ago in eBay and snatched it up for myself.  I have enjoyed using it.  Gotta love a soft steamed bun for burgers!  I'm so glad that I have found this again and will hopefully remember where I am keeping this.  That has been my latest update for this process.  On to more drawers and cabinets!


My bun warmer before I put it in the back of the cabinet years ago LOL

Saturday, May 23, 2026

The Prayer of St. Francis - arranged by Allen Pote

 A few weeks ago, I posted the prayer of St. Francis.  It's such a beautiful prayer.  This choral arrangement by Allen Pote is one that we sang when I was in youth choir at FBC. We sang this at the Baptist state youth choir convention.  I have that somewhere on cassette haha!  It's a glorious arrangement and brings back many good memories.  



Friday, May 22, 2026

Today's Moment of Mindfulness

 


You are an observer.  You have a body; you experience thoughts and emotions that come and go.  You alone remain; you are the witness to all these things. 

A childhood dream

 Yesterday, I read something online that really stuck with me.  It talked about how kids, well most kids, don't dream of growing up to be cashiers or waiters or janitors.  They had dreams and aspirations, but life took them in other directions for one reason or another.  The point of the post was that all jobs should be respected because we need those jobs in society and you don't know why someone does what they do for a living.  And that is so true.  There is no shame in any job, and no job is beneath us.

I am a Lead Hospitality Services Representative where I work.  Basically, I am a secretary.  My job is not looked at as being "just a secretary" by the company and my fellow associates.  And honestly, it took me several years to come to terms with that even though I very much enjoy what I do.  I am important at work just as our executive director is, just as our care coordinators are, just as our housekeeping staff is.  We are all parts of a machine that work together to do what we do.  It's a blessing. 

Anyway, when I read that post online, it got me to thinking about my own childhood dreams of what I wanted to be when I grew up.  I didn't want fame and fortune.  I didn't want to be a doctor or a lawyer.  I wanted to be a teacher.  Specifically, I wanted to be an elementary school teacher. So many hours of my childhood were spent playing school with kids in the neighborhood.  Looking back on it, it's kind of funny that we spent a third of our day in school only to come home and play school.  But when you make that transition from student in life to teacher in play it gives you a different perspective on education. And we played school pretty much until we got into middle school.  I have a lot of good memories of that.  And it's what I wanted to do.  For years.

I had many great teachers in my formative years.  Wanting to be an elementary school teacher, though, was inspired by two specific teachers in my life.  Sue Richmond was my first-grade teacher.  She's the one who taught me to love music boxes.  I absolutely adored her and loved being in her class. She taught me how to read. She made our class feel special and treated every child with love and respect.  I remember that first day of class when we went to school and had to find which class we were in.  Outside of her door was a big apple tree on the wall and our names were written on the apples.  We got to take the apple off the tree and wear it on our shirt that day.  That has always stuck with me.

Walter Bickett Elementary began life as the high school.  Mom attended for several years until the new high school was built around 1961.  Then it became the elementary school.

Sandra Whitley was my third-grade teacher.  I knew Mrs. Whitley from church and had always loved her. When I got in her class, I was so excited.  And she did not disappoint.  Third grade was when we learned how to right in cursive.  If you have seen my handwriting, you might think that I had not paid attention, but I did.  I remember having those large sheets of paper with the huge lines in it that we that we used to practice our cursive on.  Do they even teach that anymore?  Mrs. Whitley was just fun and creative in the things she taught, and I wanted to have a classroom like that one day. 

Our third-grade class picture

I remember all of my elementary school teachers.  Mrs. Shell, Mrs. McClarty, Mrs. Thaxton, Mrs. Carson.  They were all such great teachers.  And never once did I feel like I was being taught how to take an end of year test.  Yes, we prepped for the CAT tests and there was pressure to do well on them.  However, quality of the learning is what made it so special.  And that was because of the teachers.  And that was my dream for so many years.  It is what I wanted to do with my life.  My parents both began their careers as teachers.  Grandmother and all of her siblings were teachers.  It was in my blood.  But it was not to be. Why I did not become a teacher is a story for another day.  In the meantime, I am going to enjoy those memories and say thank you for the inspiration.

Wednesday, May 20, 2026

Gold trimmed set of china

 If you've been paying attention, you know that I love sets of china.  As of today, I have 5 sets of china and I am working on #6 LOL  I cannot help myself.  I have always loved nice dishes.  I think that this is one of the reasons that the dining room is my favorite room in any house.  I love to see a table set whether it's formal or casual.  In the end, the dishes are only there to accent the people around the table.  That's what it's truly about.  But I digress.  I love china.  Period. 


This particular set is a set of gold trimmed china by a Polish company, Wawel.  The pattern is called WAV19.  Not a very spectacular name for a beautiful set of dishes but oh well.  I inherited this set from Grandmother.  Of course, it was supposed to go to Mom but since she had passed by that time, it came to me and I couldn't have been more delighted despite the circumstances.  

Grandmother inherited this set from a cousin on the Laney side, Isabel Wolfe.  Isabel was a very interesting person who, unfortunately, got taken in by several people who took advantage of her late in life. That's a story for another time, but I will say that karma's a bitch.  Anyway, she told Grandmother once that she was going to leave her a set of china.  She had several but didn't tell her which one. It ended up being this set.  It's a service for 12 and she had most of the pieces.  Dinner plates, salad plates, bread plates, fruit bowls, cereal bowls, cups & saucers, teapot, coffee pot, etc.  A lot of pieces. Grandmother used it on special occasions and holidays.


I am much the same way.  This set always comes out at Christmas.  But I do enjoy it throughout the year. I have even taken it to work to use for special occasions there.  That's where these pictures came from.  And, after doing research, I know that there are other pieces out there that I do not have yet.  Hmmmmm.  Something for me to hunt down!  The beauty of having these dishes is that they not only bring back wonderful memories from years ago but they have also helped me to create beautiful memories as an adult.  I hope one day to pass them on to someone who will love them as much as I do.  And someone who will use them!!

Better portion control

 


One of the things that I am working on with healthier eating habits is portion control.  That has always been a huge thing for me.  Going back for seconds and sometimes thirds has been a part of my eating routine my entire life.  I am going to blame the church covered dishes for that one!  I mean, how can you not go back for more?  And I will rationalize multiple trips to a buffet by telling myself that I am paying for this so I might as well get my money's worth out of it. Even when I cook at home, I would normally have two plates of whatever it is that I cooked.  I need to make sure that it gets eaten in a timely manner so that it does not go bad and I am not wasting food.  These are all relatively true excuses, but they are just that.  Excuses. 

There are two ways that I am working on conquering this overeating in my daily life.  The first one is healthy snacking.  I have discovered that if I spread some snacks out throughout my day then when I go to have lunch or dinner, I am more likely just to have one serving per meal.  I have been going through what I have in my pantry and my fridge (my new fridge YAY!!!) and finding things that not only can I snack on but that are pretty good for me.  Lots of fruits and raw veggies and nuts.  And just small portions throughout the day end up doing a good job at keeping me full during the day.

The other thing that I am working on with this is, once again, listening to my body.  When I go to eat dinner and I am actually paying attention to what I am doing, I will stop after I finish a plate of food and ask myself if I am full.  Do I really need, not want, another plate.  9 times out of 10, my body tells me that I am full and that I do not need more food.  I still have plenty stored in my body that I need to burn off anyway.  Also, I need to wait to eat dinner, especially, when I feel hungry.  If I feel hungry and then eat, I won't eat as much.  Many times, if I just eat for the sake of eating, I will eat more.  It's hard to explain but believe me, that's what happens. 

When I make my dinner, I make the conscious effort to not fill my plate to the brim with food. I put decent sized portions on there, not oversized ones which I can easily do.  And I listen to my body while I am eating.  I take my time and actually chew my food and not swallow it whole LOL It's making a difference in how I eat.  And not only that, it is cutting down on my food costs because dishes that I make last longer.  I am still able to eat the entire dish in a timely manner so that I do not have to throw it out without overeating.  That's a good feeling. 

Tuesday, May 19, 2026

One Drawer at a Time - I haven't had to throw much out this week

 


Oddly enough, I have not had to get rid of much with the last few kitchen cabinets that I have gone through.  They are a little better organized now, but overall, they were in decent shape. What I am really starting to see with this process is that it is working for me.  Not having to discard unused things much because I am keeping up with what is in there.  That is a good feeling.

I have found very little duplicates over the past week.  One cabinet has all of my oils and vinegars in it. The opened ones, at least.  And they were all different. I used to be really bad about opening up several different bottles of the same thing because I was not checking first.  Now, I make a concerted effort to look before I leap.  Granted, sometimes things do slip through the cracks but oh well.  I can live with that.  I did make the discovery that I have a multitude of sandwich bags, both ones that seal and ones that don't.  I'm not sure why I do and they've probably been up there for years.  I do not feel like I can part with them just yet though because they my come in handy with some kind of repurposing.  We shall see.

The food cabinets are up next and I am not particularly looking forward to that.  I hope I can get it organized better than its current state. I am pretty sure there are outdated things that need to be tossed. I cleaned out my pantry this weekend and that was just sad how much I'd let go past the expiration date.  Oops LOL  Anyway, I will update you on that fun later on!